Taking the Unconscious Mind Seriously

This short video by John Grinder shows why it’s so important to take the client’s unconscious mind seriously:

We all do things that we wish we didn’t, and every one of these behaviors has a purpose behind it. It may not have wisdom behind it, but there’s always a purpose.

One thing you need to know about our behaviors is that the thoughts behind them tend to be frozen in time. If a teacher tells us that we have no artistic talent, we tend to accept that judgment as a child and forget to reassess it later. This means that we continue to overlook the fact that the teacher was nothing but a bully who wouldn’t know talent if it were pointed out by a choir of angels, and that means that, for all we know, we might be overflowing with talent!

Our limiting beliefs aren’t keeping up with current events, but they effect our feelings and behavior every day. The result is that your unconscious mind is busily protecting you from criticism by applying the old lessons, even though they may have always been the wrong lessons, and even if they were the right lessons then, they’re the wrong lessons now. The intentions are good, it’s just the method that needs to be updated.

It’s like when little kids decide to serve mom breakfast in bed on Mother’s Day. Great intentions: lousy execution. But there’s a whole year until next Mother’s Day, and there’s nothing to keep those good intentions from being focused on delivering unburned toast and unspilled orange juice next time. A few walkthroughs of the successful process, from beginning to end can work wonders.

And so it is with hypnosis. People come in because they’re doing and thinking things that are driving them nuts, but the part of you that’s enforcing these things is also your greatest ally. Hypnosis is the short path to getting communication flowing so those parts of you are working with up-to-date information, and that makes all the difference.

 

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Robert Plamondon has written three books, received over 30 U.S. patents, founded several businesses, and is an expert on free-range chickens. Robert's publishing company, Norton Creek Press, is a treasure trove of reprinted classics, including Hypnotherapy of War Neuroses, which covers treating PTSD in veterans. Robert and his wife Karen sell free-range chicken and eggs at the Corvallis farmers' markets. Robert's hypnotherapy office is in downtown Corvallis.

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